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July 22, 2009

If we lose the DeFrank center

— admin @ 1:45 pm

Maybe donating to “Save the Billy de Frank Center” could be a Facebook Cause. If it were, I’d make it my Birthday Wish.
Live long and prosper, Kennita
On Jul 21, 2009, at 6:06 PM, Anne Hansen wrote:
> Thank you Courtney, > > My name is Anne Hansen and I am presently the president of the board > at the DeFrank. I thank you for this email. Today has been quite a > busy day with press and emails and commentary! I love it!!! This > is why we are a community center! > > What you are doing is what our community needs and has needed. > > Thank you! > > The board made a very difficult decision to either make it happen or > close the doors. > > Last Thursday, I received a call from our CPA, Sandra Maciel (yes, I > am plugging her because she has given the community countless hours > of her professional direction at no charge) letting us know that all > government funding was gone. And we will need to close down unless > the community comes forward. > > You are one of those community members. > > I look forward to meeting you, and anyone who wishes to talk with > me, I can be reached at 408-248-8644 or my email. > > We have a great leader with our ED, Paul Wysocki and 12 new and very > bright diverse board members. And interested potential board > members already wanting to give back for our Annual September Board > Meeting, 28 September at 7 PM. All show up! > > Our DeFrank building loan will be completely paid off in December of > this year. As a businesswoman myself, this is just too great of an > opportunity that our GLBTQQ community has going for it. It’s > pretty much the best business deal of which I have ever heard. We > must support the continuation of all that the DeFrank offers to the > youth, counseling, HIV, social, diverse groups, vintage (over 50 > years of age) and so much more… > > Keep it going. The key is the monthly smaller donations. $5 is > just fine. That way, it’s all of our community! > > I am here for anyone, with any idea and would love volunteers for > many of these great ideas we have. > > Thank you again. > > > Anne Hansen > 408-248-8644 > > > > From: southbay-sappho-return-362-annehansen=realtor.com@lavenderevents.com > [mailto:southbay-sappho-return-362-annehansen=realtor.com@lavenderevents.com > ] On Behalf Of Courtney Gladden > Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 2:18 PM > To: SouthBay-Sappho@LavenderEvents.com > Subject: [southbay-sappho] Fw: If we lose the DeFrank center > > Hello All, > > I thought I would pass this on to all of you, this is a sad > representation of the times we are living in and I would like to > think you could pass this on to your friends and family and we may > be able to bring the BDF out of their trouble. The Defrank center is > not only a community center but it offered religion to those who > were not welcome in their local church, it offered school resources > in a safe haven to those who could not work at home or at school, > as well as ways for all of us to touch the community in one place. > > Thank you for reading this. > > Courtney > > — On Tue, 7/21/09, Paul Wysocki wrote: > > From: Paul Wysocki > Subject: If we lose the DeFrank center > To: curtneeg@yahoo.com > Date: Tuesday, July 21, 2009, 11:54 AM > > You’re receiving this email because of your relationship with the > Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center; we send this newsletter weekly > to keep our members and allies informed about the activities at > Silicon Valley’s first LGBT community center. Please confirm your > continued interest in receiving email from us. > > You may unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive our emails. > > In This Week’s Edition > > IT’S NOW, OR NEVER > > IF WE LOSE DEFRANK > > NEWS ROUNDUP > > VOLUNTEER! > > REGULAR ACTIVITIES > > Your Center’s open to serve > > > TUESDAY: > 3:00 PM - 9:00 PM > WEDNESDAY: > 10:00 AM - 9:00 PM > THURSDAY: > 3:00 PM - 9:00 PM > FRIDAY: > 3:00 PM - 9:00 PM > SATURDAY: > 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM > SUNDAY, MONDAY:CLOSED > > The Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center is closed on Sundays, > Mondays and holidays. > > Rapid HIV testingis available at the Center Tuesday - Thursday > > BY APPOINTMENT: > 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, > WALK-INS WELCOME > FROM 3:30 PM - 8:00 PM > > To schedule an appointment for rapid HIV testing, please call > Anthony at (408) 293-3040, ext. 119 > ________________ > > Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center > 938 The Alameda, > San Jose CA 95126 > (408) 293-3040 > > Quick Link to… > > Our Website > > Center to close without significant support > > > Despite hard work, your community center’s funding crisis continues > to worsen. > > Our government funding has ended, and in today’s economy, we can’t > count on corporate support. Our current income from memberships and > events no longer meets even the most basic level of Center operations. > > Simply put, unless we raise adequate, unrestricted operating funds > by September 1, 2009, the Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center will > close its doors, and Silicon Valley will lose a 28-year resource. > > We’ve responded to this crisis by taking bold action: a new interim > Executive Director was hired and a new, 14 member Board of Directors > was installed and trained. Operational expenses were cut, while > still maintaining daily operation and program activities. We’ve > reduced our operating costs to the barest minimum, and increased our > outreach to the best of our ability, given our limited funds: the > Center is now prepared to move toward the future. But without > immediate, year-long commitments from within our own community, we > will not survive. > > We’re a community center, and we rely on our community to keep our > doors open. Your donation - probably less than you spend on your > daily caffeine fix - will give us the chance to renew our Center, > and to continue to serve our community. Without it, we lose a safe > haven for youth, a solace for seniors, a cultural and spiritual > place to call home. We’ll lose our community’s center. > > We’ve made donating as easy as possible through our website; our > request to the community we serve is for your support through > monthly donations through our automatic billing system. > Automatic monthly donations will give us the reliable source of > ongoing support we need to keep our doors open. You can custom- > tailor your support for DeFrank through our website’s donations page > - knowing that you’re choosing to continue a vibrant LGBT presence > in Silicon Valley. > > It’s your choice. Donate today, and we’ve got a chance. Or sit by > and watch an amazing resource disappear. > > If we lose Billy DeFrank, we lose a lot. > > What happens if we lose the Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center? > > We’ll lose the only place where dozens of kids feel safe being who > they know they are. Our Youth Program’s activities help young people > feel comfortable, secure, and wanted - and helps them deal with the > issues we all dealt with while growing up. In addition to popular > social programs, our partnership with Family & Children Services > means we offer the only culturally-competent counseling service for > LGBT youth age 16 - 24 in the state: a program that thrives by being > hosted in the DeFrank Center. > > We’ll lose connection to decades of heroic activism, brave > leadership, constant struggle and occasional victories - and we’ll > stop serving many of our community’s pioneers, because our Vintage > Senior Program would no longer have a Community Center in which to > meet, to hold lunches, to share fellowship and support. > > We’ll lose our favorite LGBT book and gift shop: Sisterspirit has > been a part of the DeFrank Center for many years, offering a great > place to browse and shop for that “just right” item. > > We’ll lose the place where dozens of community groups meet weekly. > There won’t be a safe, welcoming home for transgender, bisexual, > coming-out, LGBT-sensitive alcohol and drug recovery, or women’s and > men’s support programs; a convenient and relevant midday meeting > place for LGBT business groups; a symbolic spot for us to rally > against the next anti-gay ballot measure. > > We’ll lose our wonderful building on The Alameda. No more low-cost > meeting space for neighborhood groups; no more fabulous events in > our Grand Ballroom; no more “family-friendly” HIV testing location. > We’ll say goodbye to the most fun you can have on a Wednesday night, > Gay Bingo at DeFrank. If we lose Billy DeFrank, we’ll leave a > visible reminder of our community’s indifference. > > You may have been to none of these events, used none of these > services, or ever thought about going to Bingo, but no one can deny > our role in the community. If we lose the DeFrank LGBT Community > Center, we lose our home. > > Please don’t wait to see how this one plays out. We need a > commitment from our community - today. If you can help, please > donate here - and please use your personal networking skills to help > spread the word: if we lose Billy DeFrank, we lose a lot. > NEWS AND EVENTS ROUNDUP > > > Our next Board of Directors meeting is Tuesday, July 28 at 7:00 > p.m.; meetings are held in the Grand Ballroom of the Center at 938 > The Alameda, San Jose. > _______________ > > Join Sisterspirit Bookstore for an evening of literary enjoyment as > three authors of lesbian fiction visit and read from their latest > novels from Bold Strokes Books. This author reading and discussion > starts at 6:30 p.m. on Friday, July 31 in rooms A & B at the Billy > DFrank LGBT Community Center. You can RSVP to mooncild@aol.com; > there’s no charge but of course your donations help make events like > this possible, so… > _______________ > > Speaking of support, do you know how easy it is to donate to the > Center through our website? Try it and see! Go to www.defrank.org > and click “donations.” You’ve got the option of making a one-time > gift, or a very welcome monthly contribution. And you know we need > your support now more than ever! > _______________ > > Our Youth Program hosts a Masquerade Ball on Friday, July 24. Open > to LGBTQQ and allied youth aged 13 - 20, the event will be held in > our Grand Ballroom from 8:00 p.m. - midnight. If you’d like to > support our youth by chaperoning the event, please email CassieB@DeFrank.org > or call (408) 293-3040, ext. 111. > > Make a difference: volunteer at DeFrank > > > > Your community center is looking for a few good people — volunteers > who will play a major role in our renewal! > Three key positions are open: Events Coordinator, Online Community > Coordinator, and Volunteer Coordinator. > > • For the position of Events Coordinator, we seek an experienced, > take charge person with ability to manage administration and > logistics in support of a busy special events environment. The ideal > candidate must be able to anticipate project needs, discern work > priorities, and meet deadlines with little supervision, and be > willing to work occasional evenings and weekends. The Events > Coordinator should have a love for special event management, provide > outstanding customer service, be an enthusiastic professional, and > be able to build relationships with internal and external customers. > • The Online Community Coordinator is responsible for developing > and implementing all online marketing programs and communications, > including (but not limited to) email communications, targeted > marketing on the website, and management of content and promotions > on the website. Candidate must be comfortable working with minimal > management and leveraging many different tactics, including Twitter, > Facebook and other social networking/web 2.0 methods to communicate > effectively to consumers. > • Our Volunteer Coordinator will work with staff and historical > data to identify volunteer needs, job descriptions and training > protocols; recruit, assess and assign volunteers to needed > positions; monitor performance, maintain records, and report to the > Executive Director; conduct ongoing training and motivation > sessions; develop and conduct volunteer recognition events; and > troubleshoot problems — all in a friendly and informative manner! > At the DeFrank Center, we embrace diversity and enjoy working with > people from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds and > lifestyles. > > For information on, or to apply for either position, please contact > Paul Wysocki at (408) 293-3040 ext. 103, or email paul@defrank.org. > Regular Weekly and Monthly Activities > > Events listed below take place in the Center, 938 The Alameda, San > Jose unless otherwise noted > > Bingo - Every Wednesday, 6:00 p.m. (Buy-in is $15. Current DeFrank > members who show their card receive a $2 discount. Extra pack is > $7. Cash prizes range from $50 to $200.) > > Bisexual Support Group - Every 1st & 3rd Tuesday, 7:30 p.m. > > Coming Out Support Group - Every Wednesday, 7:00 p.m. > > Men’s Discussion Group - Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. > > 50+ Men’s Support Group - Every 2nd Thursday, 5:00 p.m. > > Transmen Support Group - Every 4th Tuesday, 7:30 p.m. > > Transwomen Support Group - Every 2nd & 4th Friday, 7:30 p.m. > > 20-Somethings Men’s Coffee - Every 2nd & 4th Wednesday, 8:30 p.m. > (@ Crema Coffee) > > 20-Somethings Women & Trans Coffee - Every 4th Thursday in our Youth > Center > > Vintage Program Wednesday Luncheon and Saturday Brunch - Every > Wednesday and Saturday, 11:30 a.m. > > > Women On Women (WOW) Discussion Group - Every Thursday, 7:00 p.m. > > DeFrank e-news Business Sponsors: > Anne Hansen Realty, Metropolitan Community Church of San Jose & > Motor Masters Automotive > > > Forward email > > This email was sent to curtneeg@yahoo.com by paul@defrank.org. > Update Profile/Email Address | Instant removal with > SafeUnsubscribe™ | Privacy Policy. > Email Marketingby > > The Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center | 938 The Alameda | San Jose > | CA | 95126 > >
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Looking for a DJ for our wedding on August 8th

— admin @ 10:45 am

Hi all you lovely women!
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Come on!! I know we can do better than that!! Any help would be much appreciated!
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If we lose the DeFrank center

— admin @ 10:45 am

Thank you Courtney,

My name is Anne Hansen and I am presently the president of the board at the DeFrank. I thank you for this email. Today has been quite a busy day with press and emails and commentary! I love it!!! This is why we are a community center!

What you are doing is what our community needs and has needed.

Thank you!

The board made a very difficult decision to either make it happen or close the doors.

Last Thursday, I received a call from our CPA, Sandra Maciel (yes, I am plugging her because she has given the community countless hours of her professional direction at no charge) letting us know that all government funding was gone. And we will need to close down unless the community comes forward.

You are one of those community members.

I look forward to meeting you, and anyone who wishes to talk with me, I can be reached at 408-248-8644 or my email.

We have a great leader with our ED, Paul Wysocki and 12 new and very bright diverse board members. And interested potential board members already wanting to give back for our Annual September Board Meeting, 28 September at 7 PM. All show up!

Our DeFrank building loan will be completely paid off in December of this year. As a businesswoman myself, this is just too great of an opportunity that our GLBTQQ community has going for it. It’s pretty much the best business deal of which I have ever heard. We must support the continuation of all that the DeFrank offers to the youth, counseling, HIV, social, diverse groups, vintage (over 50 years of age) and so much more…

Keep it going. The key is the monthly smaller donations. $5 is just fine. That way, it’s all of our community!

I am here for anyone, with any idea and would love volunteers for many of these great ideas we have.

Thank you again.

Anne Hansen
408-248-8644

From: southbay-sappho-return-362-annehansen=realtor.com@lavenderevents.com [mailto:southbay-sappho-return-362-annehansen=realtor.com@lavenderevents.com] On Behalf Of Courtney Gladden Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 2:18 PM To: SouthBay-Sappho@LavenderEvents.com Subject: [southbay-sappho] Fw: If we lose the DeFrank center

Hello All,

I thought I would pass this on to all of you, this is a sad representation of the times we are living in and I would like to think you could pass this on to your friends and family and we may be able to bring the BDF out of their trouble. The Defrank center is not only a community center but it offered religion to those who were not welcome in their local church, it offered school resources in a safe haven to those who could not work at home or at school, as well as ways for all of us to touch the community in one place.

Thank you for reading this.

Courtney

Sunday Brunch 7/26 @ 2223 Restaurant

— admin @ 10:45 am

Hey ladies! I am organizing an outing to 2223 Restaurant this Sunday. Details below. 2223 Restaurant has great ambience and service. Their brunch menu is really good too. My favorite dish is the cinnamon sour dough french toast. Check out their brunch menu at http://www.2223restaurant.com/menu_brunch.html.
This Sunday brunch is an opportunity for women in the area to come together and get to know each other over a fabulous meal. I have organized brunches intermittently for the better part of two years. Plenty of women have attended the brunches. I have made several great friends from these gatherings. You can too! So come on down!
PLEASE RSVP - It helps me settle reservations.
Here are the details:
WHAT: Sunday brunch! WHEN: Sunday, July 26 @ 1 pm WHERE: 2223 Restaurant @ 2223 Market Street CONTACT: Jane @ 415-312-2994 & jaceitun@yahoo. com
See you there!